Why Girls Like Bad Boys
WARNING: What you are about to read are facts proven to work every single time. Hence, I don’t want anyone who intends to use them to harm women to have access to them.If your intentions are to harm or hurt or break the heart of women, please STOP reading. However, if you want to attract the woman of your dreams and keep her attracted to you, then continue reading.
This is a very popular subject. 99.9% of men are away women are attracted to bad boys, they just can’t resist them but really don’t know why. They think they can use logical reasoning to make women see why they shouldn’t fall in love with the bad boys.100% of women are aware they can’t resist the bad boys even though they know these are not what they should want.
Well in this article you’re going to find out exactly why women find bad boys attractive and irresistible.If you’re a movie fanatic, you must have come across guys like Brad Pitt, James Dean, Daniel Craig popularly known as James Bond, just to name a few. Oh, I should add Kanye West also. If you don’t know the others, you should know this music and hollywood stars.
But first let me tell you a story.
So while in University, I knew this guy called Toby.He was dark, handsome, tall and had smoky eyes. His lips had a pink edge to them and his teeth were beautiful to watch.Anyway, this guy Toby was a terror. He was a cultist, and not just a cultist, he kept a long line of girlfriends.
These girls all knew they were competing for one man and didn't care. Even worse, he was rumoured to have gone to the Female Hostel in his Year One, to steal ladies panties for rituals.But you know what?The ladies didn’t care.They all wanted him. So much so they would fight each other.
He would beat them up, pour water on them put them top public shame, and they would cry and…Beg Him To Take Them Back!It was a spectacle to watch. I used to call the girls idiots and I believe they are but now that I know better I can understand why that happened.
You see, if you look closely into the lives of these men, these “bad boys”, you’ll notice these guys have similar traits.They mistreat women without any iota of pity. Even if they feel any, they hide it.They enjoy wielding their power over women.They are cocky, proud and see themselves as better than the women.
They are confident they can land any woman they want, no matter what.Know any guy like that?
A lady called me on the phone the other day crying. She just got her heart broken and the guy doesn’t care about her but she loves him. On this side, as she spoke, I just nodded my head, as I already knew what was going on.
She was saying how the guy was being selfish and doesn’t care about her feelings. And guess what? The Guy Is Married!You might start asking “what’s wrong with her?” “Is she crazy?” “What was she expecting?”
If you asked any of these or all these questions, you’re right, but you’re forgetting one critical important thing.
Here it is:
Psychology has proven that women and men want what others compete for. Have you ever been on a queue at the ATM machine and when you arrive, you notice that everybody is standing behind one machine?Then you also join them.
Then suddenly someone else arrives, goes to the second or third machine, there and withdraws money successfully, then suddenly the long queue breaks up and more people start using the second machine?It's the same thing, only this time, it involves human emotions.
We human beings gravitate to what others people want, and we will do everything within our ability to get it.So, what exactly do these bad boys possess that makes women crave them so much?It’s the Dark Triad personality traits of narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellism.
Let me break it down for you to understand.The hallmarks of narcissism include dominance, a sense of entitlement, and a grandiose self-view. They possess the willingness and ability to compete with one’s own sex, and to repel mates shortly after intercourse.
Society in general and the media in particular LOVE to paint the Bad Boy as the black hole of masculinity. That is to say, that nothing can escape them… no woman can resist their magnetism, no nice guy is nice enough to keep a woman away from their pull.
So what exactly are the traits possessed by these bad boys women find irresistible?
- Bad boys keep it real
Unlike nice guys who want to make sure they do everything right even to their detriment to make sure a woman is satisfied. Bad boys are blunt and are not afraid to cause some turbulence and frustration in a woman’s life.
Bad boys set boundaries, they wouldn’t give a woman the opportunity to walk all over them. They just know how to put a woman in her place without mixing their words or shading their actions.
3. Approval Seeking:
Unlike Nice guys who constantly seek approval and be told how much they are loved, the bad boy doesn’t care as he knows he’s awesome and there are tons of other women who want him. He cares about himself more than any other person.
Another reason why bad boys are so appealing is simple: they’re more of a challenge than a lot of nicer guys. Part of what makes the difference between sexual attraction and platonic friendship is behavior. A guy with many female friends may well be a good guy with lots to recommend to him, but he’s missing that spark or oomph that catches people’s attention. More often than not, they tend to be agreeable and eager to please… almost too eager in some cases. Once again, the bad boy cares more about himself
Bad boys are mysterious. They just can’t be predicted which is exciting to women. Nice guys are predictable which is boring. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge equals "women prefer a bad boy." They always bring the fun and excitement.
6. Bad Boys are Charming:
Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen hard and has a tough time letting go. They just know how to put a woman through a roller coaster.
7. Some women have low self-esteem:
Women don't feel comfortable with a man who treat them better than they treat themselves (They feel such a man is too genuine to be real). So, the bad boy is simply reinforces their negative belief. A nice guy only treat her in a way she’s not familiar with and that feels uncomfortable.
8. Women just want to be fucked:
Women sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won't be able to take control and get the job done under the sheets. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case.
Women are genetically programmed to seek the strongest of males to mate with and continue procreation. Hence are drawn to the masculinity of the bad boy. He gives her the vibes that she will be protected. Bad boys believe their genes are so strong that they aren't afraid of losing a woman because of bad behavior. Nice guys' fear of losing their woman sends the exact opposite message.
If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment and too soon and that's scary to a woman.
11. Women like to feel needed:
Nice guys don't usually need "to be fixed." Bad boys usually do, so they become a "project." Some women think if they can "create" the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they're busy fixing someone else, they don't have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives.
12. Bad boys go for what they want without hesitation:
Stop me if you’ve heard this one before: a shy nice guy has a crush on an attractive woman. He spends weeks trying to tell if she likes him back.
Then, after days of building up his courage he makes his move.That, of course, is when he discovers that she’s dating someone else. The problem for so many nice guys is that they are afraid of rejection. They refuse to make an approach unless they are 110% sure that they’ll succeed.
They will dress it up in any number of excuses.They want to wait until the moment’s right, they don’t want to make it weird.
But it all comes down to the same problem: they don’t want to take the risk of getting hurt from rejection.
There you have it guys, this is why women date and sleep with bad boys, even if they know they can’t have long term relationships with the bad boy as it always leads or ends with heartbreaks and hurt.
Does this mean you have to be disrespectful, abusive or cold-hearted to be able to get women attracted to you?Now, but it does means you have to have the traits of confidence, self-assuredness, even cockiness, just like a “bad boy” has.
Because it’s the fact that a boy is bad that attracts women to him, it’s what a bad boy does.Women are in search of the unicorns.
You know who a unicorn is? It’s the “bad boy” who will have the good sense to fall in love with and marry them.Only 3% of the male population are unicorns. Those men are the nice guys who have incorporated the traits and mannerisms of the “bad boy”.
In my book Escape the Friend Zone, I have laid down, step by step, how to become a Unicorn.You will go from the “Mr. Nice Guy” that women only want to be friends with but will never sleep with to a “bad boy” they will fight tooth and nail to get, keep and possibly marry.
But of course, you will determine if you want to marry them or not. Isn't this what you want?Click the button below to learn more: