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The “Just Got Dumped” GUIDE

WARNING: What you are about to read are facts proven to work every single time. Hence, I don’t want anyone who intends to use them to harm women to have access to them. If your intentions are to harm or hurt or break the heart of women, please STOP reading. However, if you want to attract the woman of your dreams and keep her attracted to you, then continue reading.

At one point or another, everybody ends up getting dumped or a break up for one reason or another, even Brad Pitt.


You know him huh?

Yes, that’s him. The sexy and charming man got dumped.

So there’s absolutely no problem with that. The woman just didn’t want to be with you anymore. Perhaps she only wanted the sex and it got boring or maybe she is looking for something more serious. Nobody is 100% compatible with each other and differences are going to occur and relationships will terminate. A lot of “Soulmate” or “the one” Myth flying around. There are many the one for everyone.

That’s story for another day.

But for today, I have a story for you. Once upon a time (please this is not fiction), one of my friends met a charming girl with massive butts. Sexy and hot as hell. Yeah, I mean it. Things were going great for the next 6 months and all of a sudden things changed. My friend was in a concert when he received an SMS from his charming girlfriend. She wanted a break up (I sh!t you not fellas).

My friend just read the message and ignored it. He was strong enough to go about his purpose just like I taught him. He made sure he completed what he was out there for and for the next 2 days, he didn’t flip, he didn’t reply nor texts her to ask what the problem. He completely acted aloof. On the 3rd day, the girl called and started pleading. That’s the grip a strong man can have over a woman.

Thing is, some of you guys just can’t handle being dumped by a woman and you feel like you absolutely NEED to get your ex-girlfriend back, or at least make them fall in love with you again, for your own self-validation. I really don’t understand why you’d want to seek validation from a woman.

Anyways, so what exactly do you need to do after a woman breaks up with you?

Should you offer to be friends? HELL NO. that’s obviously not what you want

Should you beg her to get together with you? HELL NO. Do this and I will find you and cut off your P!n!s. Just kidding. But seriously man, DON’T DO IT.

What if you think she is the woman you were destined to be with? – If she is so meant to be with you, she will come back sometime in the future and the ball will be in your court. I hope you know what to do when such a day comes?

What if she was a virgin and you are afraid other guys will take her virginity? – Oh well. Nothing you can do about it. She doesn’t feel you anymore so get that into your head!

ONCE a woman dumps you, she thought about it 100 times before she did it. She played it over and over in her head. Most likely she has another guy waiting up in line. Even more often, they usually have a man who is already sleeping with them and taking care of all their needs.

Yes, and she has been telling you but you were not just listening. She just used the notorious breakup protocol on you (The breakup protocol is a secret girls’ code that chicks activate when they are about to dump a guy) and you didn’t even notice because you were so wrapped up in your feelings for her. But a Man who has gone through the entry level the Game Mastery System just like my friend can easily decode every of her secret language and every move and turn things around FAST.

Once it is over, it is simply OVER.

Do not speak to her anymore.

Do not maintain contact with her anymore.

Do not have her on your friends’ list on facebook anymore and don’t chat with her on BBM or keep her on BBM.

Here are 5 rules:

1) Delete her phone number.

2) Delete her BBM.

3) Delete her facebook.

4) FORGET about all the websites she goes to and don’t stalk her on the internet or worse, in real life.

5) Do not initiate contact. Either on Instagram, internet, real life or over the phone.

Break any of those rules and you have lost the game. Yes, you just got defeated, bro.

Let me explain to you the way women’s minds work.

After a woman breaks up with a man, she is UNSURE about her decision (I know you don’t know this. Now you know). Women are very uncertain creatures. Women do not trust themselves. Very few women are extremely self-confident and even those will doubt their decisions a lot of the time.

When growing up, a lot of these women looked up to their fathers to make sure they made the right decisions. Daddy would approve or daddy would disapprove. And that is how they knew they made the right or wrong decision. But, they can’t really talk to DADDY about their decisions with men.

So what happens?

When they break up with you, they judge based on YOUR REACTION whether or not they made the right choice by dumping you.

If you CRY, BEG HER BACK, WANT TO BE FRIENDS, and proceed to call her and give her attention… SHE KNOWS SHE DID THE RIGHT CHOICE. This is what 97% of guys do. The other 3% know how attraction work and you can find them in the Game Mastery System.

If you smile, walk away and don’t say a word – then she will not know how to handle it. In a few weeks, she will start to DOUBT she made the right decision. Anxiety is going to go through her every time she thinks about you. After a while, she will start to think of you every day. Then it will become every few hours. Then it will become every few minutes.

Eventually, she will no longer know how to handle it and the curiosity and anxiety will drive her wild.

She will try to call you or email you or send a text.

If you pick up the phone and speak to her, you LOST.

If you answer her email, you LOST.

If she texts you and you reply back immediately, you lost. I mean it man, DON’T DO IT!

Once she INITIATES CONTACT with you, if you are too easy to get a hold of, she knows you are easy. The whole challenge would be lost. (You’ve been too easy, Now it’s time to be a challenge)

After she calls you once or twice, she will start to go crazy, even more.

You may not believe this happens but it really does.

Her anxiety will go through the roof and she won’t be able to sleep at night. Believe me. Especially if you put up a picture on your facebook with yourself and another girl holding hands or showing any type of affection or just a simple Facebook status showing you’re having fun. It will get her insane. She will start to think you found your dream woman and she is forgotten. This will drive her crazy.

Imagine her anxiety level like an EMPTY GLASS.

Once she dumps you, she usually has a little bit of anxiety. If you start to cry and blow up her phone, she TRUSTS HER DECISION and she feels no anxiety towards it. She looks at you and you are done.


However, if on the other hand, you don’t cry and you walk away with a big smile, she will wonder what happened. Give it a week, and that “glass” will start to fill up. Her anxiety level is going to rise.

Then she will try to call you. You don’t answer. Unconsciously she starts to think you are better than she is and she lost a good thing. Her anxiety and fear of loss go through the roof.

When she sees you with another woman, jealousy emotions will kick in and she will lose her mind.


When that glass gets all the way full and she can’t handle her anxiety anymore, she will do something insane.

This can be:

– call your phone 287 times in 12 minutes

– leave an email saying she will kill herself

– tell you she really needs your help and she can’t live without you

– say she needs you and wants you

– She tells you she loves and misses you

What do you do when she does this?

You go to the liquor store, buy yourself a whiskey, sit on the couch, SIP your drink, savour the moment and you do NOTHING.

You let that anxiety stay at a peak.

Her anxiety will be overwhelming to her and she will start to slowly build up other emotions toward you.

When a woman is given EXTREMELY strong emotions from a man, like ANXIETY or HAPPINESS or FEAR, or any other, she will begin to think she is in LOVE WITH HIM.


You read that right. You will make her feel high anxiety levels and she will start to think she is in love with you after a while.

Isn’t that the dumbest thing you’ve ever heard? But that is the way the human mind works.

You let her stay at that high peaked anxiety.

She can call you and beg to get back together, don’t do it YET.

Let her beg (remember she said she doesn’t want anymore?). Let her grovel. Don’t even pick up the phone or talk to her. Let her feel that anxiety. Every second you hold out more, she will fall in love a bit more with you and her feelings will intensify towards you.

If you dated a girl for 1 year, maybe let her grovel and beg for a month or 2.

If you dated her 3 months, let her grovel and beg for 3 weeks or so. Don’t give yourself away too fast though, use some judgment.

When she will come back, if you want to start a relationship with her, go ahead.


But again, the ball is in your court.

The purpose of this guide was to teach you how to be a man and handle yourself like a man would.

And that is how you handle getting dumped.

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Why Girls Like Bad Boys

WARNING: What you are about to read are facts proven to work every single time. Hence, I don’t want anyone who intends to use them to harm women to have access to them. If your intentions are to harm or hurt or break the heart of women, please STOP reading. However, if you want to attract the woman of your dreams and keep her attracted to you, then continue reading.

This is a very popular subject. 99.9% of men are aware women are attracted to bad boys, they just can’t resist them but really don’t know why. They think they can use logical reasoning to make women see why they shouldn’t fall in love with the bad boys.
100% of women are aware they can’t resist the bad boys even though they are not what they want.
Well in this article you’re going to find out exactly why women find bad boys attractive and irresistible.

If you’re a movie fanatic, you must have come across guys like Brad Pitt, James Dean, Daniel Craig popularly known as James Bond to Just name a few. Oh, I should add Kanye West; If you don’t know the others, you should know this Hollywood’s star.
If you look closely into the lives of these men, you’ll notice these guys have similar traits. Traits of the bad boy.

Research has revealed that these men possess the Dark Triad personality traits of narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellism. The hallmarks of narcissism include dominance, a sense of entitlement, and a grandiose self-view. They possess the willingness and ability to compete with one’s own sex and to repel mates shortly after intercourse.

Society in general and the media in particular LOVE to paint the Bad Boy as the black hole of masculinity. That is to say, that nothing can escape them… no woman can resist their magnetism, no Nice Guy is nice enough to keep a woman away from their pull.
So what exactly are the traits possessed by these bad boys women find irresistible?

1. Bad boys keep it real
Unlike nice guys who want to make sure they do everything right even to their detriment to make sure a woman is satisfied. Bad boys are blunt and are not afraid to cause some turbulence and frustration in a woman’s life.

2. Boundaries: 
Bad boys set boundaries, they wouldn’t give a woman the opportunity to walk all over them. They just know how to put a woman in her place without mixing their words or shading their actions.

3. Approval Seeking:
Unlike Nice guys who constantly seek approval and be told how much they are loved, the bad boy doesn’t care as he knows he’s awesome and there are tons of other women who want him. He cares about himself more than any other person.

4. Challenge:
Another reason why bad boys are so appealing is simple: they’re more of a challenge than a lot of nicer guys. Part of what makes the difference between sexual attraction and platonic friendship is behaviour. A guy with many female friends may well be a good guy with lots to recommend to him, but he’s missing that spark or oomph that catches people’s attention. More often than not, they tend to be agreeable and eager to please… almost too eager in some cases. Once again, the bad boy cares more about himself

5. Mystery:
Bad boys are mysterious. They just can’t be predicted which is exciting to women. Nice guys are predictable which is boring. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge equals “women prefer a bad boy.” They always bring the fun and excitement.

6. Bad Boys are Charming:

Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colours, the woman has fallen hard and has a tough time letting go. They just know how to put a woman on a roller coaster.

7. Some women have low self-esteem:

Women don’t feel comfortable with a man who treats them better than they treat themselves (They feel such a man is too genuine to be real). So, the bad boy is simply reinforces their negative belief. A nice guy only treats her in a way she’s not familiar with and that feels uncomfortable.

8. Women just want to be bleeped:

Women sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done under the sheets. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case.

9. Hormones:

Women are genetically programmed to seek the strongest of males to mate with and continue procreation. Hence are drawn to the masculinity of the bad boy. He gives her the vibes that she will be protected. Bad boys believe their genes are so strong that they aren’t afraid of losing a woman because of bad behaviour. Nice guys’ fear of losing their woman sends the exact opposite message.

10. Commitment:
If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment and too soon and that’s scary to a woman.

11. Women like to feel needed:

Nice guys don’t usually need “to be fixed.” Bad boys usually do, so they become a “project.” Some women think if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives.

12. Bad boys go for what they want without hesitation:

Stop me if you’ve heard this one before: a shy nice guy has a crush on an attractive woman. He spends weeks trying to tell if she likes him back. Then, after days of building up his courage, he makes his move.

That, of course, is when he discovers that she’s dating someone else. The problem for so many nice guys is that they are afraid of rejection. They refuse to make an approach unless they are 110% sure that they’ll succeed. They will dress it up in any number of excuses. They want to wait until the moment’s right, they don’t want to make it weird. But it all comes down to the same problem: they don’t want to take the risk of getting hurt from rejection.

There you have it guys, this is why women date the nice guys and sleep with the bad boys(flings). Women know they can’t have long-term relationships with the bad boy as it always leads or ends with heartbreaks and hurt. This is why they are now in search of the unicorns. Only 3% of the male population are unicorns. Those men who have been able to find the balance between the Nice Guy and The Bad Boy. In my group (Relationship and Dating matters with Jonathan Melody), I teach guys how to become a Unicorns and Not being seen or labelled a scum. Yet still, possess the bad boy traits. You can search on facebook to join others.

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The Art of Conversations: Build Instant Connection With Women

WARNING: What you're about to read is very effective. Hence I don't want those who intend to harm or hurt women to use this. If you intend to hurt women please stop reading. I mean it. STOP right here


Building a rapport with women is the second stage in the attraction level and most men find it difficult to move past it, they just hit a dead zone. Just like the teller machine when it no longer has any cash to dispense, leaving the woman frustrated. Same happens when you can’t hold a conversation with a woman. But that would be a thing of the past once you’re able to read through this article.

If you've ever watched Blind Date, I'm sure you've seen or experienced these two types of dates: 

Date A: Conversation goes well. Guy and girl are talking and no awkward silences. These are usually the ones where both say they want a 2nd date 

Date B: Conversation doesn't go well. Guy and girl talk a little, but it's just random questions here and there and full of awkward silences. These dates don't usually lead to a 2nd. The girl always says she didn't feel they made any type of connection. 

If you're out with a girl, she needs to feel that you and her are connected on a personal level. This connection leads to attraction or builds on it. 

But most guys can't carry a conversation. They have no idea what to say, they ask a question, the girl answers, then they sit there looking around like a broken alarm clock because they ran out of questions. The girl thinks the guy is boring, dull, and unable to handle the simplest of tasks. 

Girls love to talk, but they will toss you aside if you can't keep them interested with a basic conversation. 

If you have being able to intrigue the lady, it’s time to create a rapport, as well as sustain it. Every human loves the feeling of importance, we want to talk about ourselves, the battles we have won, the heights we have attained and it’s no different when it comes to keeping a rapport with a woman.

You need to understand that every woman loves to talk about herself and loves stories. You don’t have to be super smart to get a conversation going with a woman if you can understand these two things and how to apply them. Please, don’t go out there and start throwing questions upon questions on her as she will get pissed. No woman wants to feel as though she’s being interrogated. However, you only need to apply a twist to this. 

Truth is, having a girl talk about herself by asking questions is one of the best ways to maintain your mystery. 80-90% of our communication is done non-verbally. Your body language is extremely important because it says more than you think. When you're talking to a girl, keep eye contact. Don't sit there staring at her chest or looking around the room at other people. Don't look like someone with a short attention span. 

Tone is also very important. How you say something is more important than what you actually say. 

Words, tone and body language make up a conversation. But words are the least of the 3. Keep in mind tone and body language will actually deliver what you're saying. 

You need to know that you’re responsible for the emotions you project onto a woman and are in total control of every rapport. This is why the cube game which I talked about in my group (relationship and dating matters with Jonathan melody) is the fastest way to create an instant connection and build up emotions in her.

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Take a genuine interest in what she's saying. Don't try to fake it. When she tells you she spent 3 months in Abuja during her summer vacation, don't say, "That's cool." That's a big thing. Ask her about it. What did she like about the place? Where in Abuja did she spend her time? What differences are there between Abuja and Lagos (assuming that's her permanent place residence)? You could talk to her for hours just about her trip. 

Ok, now let's get into some techniques and tips for holding or initiating conversation. 

1. Always be aware of your surroundings! 

Some of the best conversation starters are based on what's going on around you. Maybe something funny happened, maybe there's a guy that looks like Hanks Anuku. Maybe the girl dropped her cell phone in water. Whatever is going on around you, learn to use it to your advantage. 

Ways to practice this: 

When you go out, look for things happening to people or in your surroundings. Then, approach anyone (guy or girl) and talk to him or her about it. Make it seem smooth and if you can, funny. Then, let that lead to more conversation. This is probably the best way to do a Cold Approach(an approach to someone you've never met).

2. Use open-ended questions

It’s no news at this point that women love talking, especially about themselves. Asking a woman questions about herself will help you gather enough information to increase her attraction level for you through seduction.

Don't come up sounding like a robot configured to ask questions and risk turning her off. 

Be genuinely interested in what she tells you and mirror her expressions and gestures and speech patterns but don’t be obvious about it.

See these conversations below;

I want to assume you have passed the intrigue stage of getting her interested

You: what do you do for fun?

Her: reading and playing chess

You: Do you always play chess?

Her: Yes

You: That’s Nice

Her: OK

Now I want to go through that same conversation with a little twist to it.

You: So tell me, what do you do for fun?

Her: Reading and playing chess

You: that sounds awesome! You must be a walking library and a goddess of chess. Played in a championship?

Her: Hahaha, you’re funny. I always wanted to but time and my job wouldn’t allow me. I work in a bank as a marketing officer and that takes a chunk out of my time. Do you do anything for fun?

You: Yes I do and that’s talking to you(she’s going to blush at this) and what feelings exactly do you derive from playing chess?

Her: Playing chess relaxes my nerves and turns on my thinking cap. If you understand what I mean?

You: Hell no I don't! Tell me, what do you me by thinking cap?

Can you see the direction of the two conversations? You act like you’re interested. Because when you do, she will tell you more without asking. And the cube game will make her appear like an open book and you get to read into her desires and needs.

Tip: The harder a woman works on building rapport with you, the more you’re going to be worth to her

3. Listen to Her! 

I'm sure you've all heard women complain about guys that don't listen. If you ask the girl the proper questions and just sit back and listen, she'll tell you exactly how to seduce her. 

She'll tell you what she looks for, what she likes, and what she doesn't like. You guide the conversation then use this so you know what she wants to hear and how she wants to hear it. If any of you have ever done sales, you'll know what I'm talking about. Always let the customer talk first and they'll tell you what they want to hear. (The cube method is the fastest way to achieve this without her even knowing)

Girls like guys who can keep them interested. Try to keep the conversation different. Take risks. Talk to her about stuff other guys usually wouldn't; you'll stick in her mind. Watch the news so you know what's going on in the world. You can use that to get opinions out of her if you need something to talk about. 

One more technique, which is a little more advanced, is using statements instead of questions. This isn't to carry a conversation, it's just a technique you can use to change things up a bit and display a lot of confidence. 

Are you tired of meeting weird guys? 
=> You must be tired of meeting weird guys. 

What school did you go to? 
=> So tell me what school did you graduate from 

How was your day? 
=> Tell me about your day 

They usually start with 

"So...", "Then..." 
"You must..." 
"You could..." 
"It must be..." 

Statements they take a position and a risk.Saying, "I'm not interested in a long-term relationship right now" is taking a risk. 

Making these statements shows her your courage and confidence instead of being a guy who sits back and asks safe questions. It also gives you more control because you're telling her to tell you something, not asking her nicely (but stating it isn't rude either). This is where a little bit of negging when used with the cube game works magic. She'll be telling you how much fun she had at the end of the date or how you get to know so much about her which instantly increases your value in her eyes and shoots her attraction for you up.

The Cube game is something of a mystery. It is the Holy Grail in getting women drawn to you instantly. But few men know about it and how to use it. 

You don't need Q-Cards to keep a conversation going or building a connection. Just go with what she says and build on it. It's as easy as that.

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Escape The Friend Zone

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Guys, I am sure this has happened to you before,

Sometimes you meet an amazingly gorgeous woman who you just connect with, you are blown away by her personality, intelligence, appearance and can’t help thinking about how a life with her would look like.

You were able to strike a rapport with her and got her phone number and you are now in contact. Then you went on the first date, and then the second date, maybe even a third date and you can see yourself dating her and you want her to be your girlfriend. So you decide, “today I am going to ask her out”
The D-day comes and you make your intention known to her. You tell her she’s the most amazing thing that has happened to you and you want her to be your girlfriend.

But, she says NO.

Her reasons? She not ready yet. Or she says she has a boyfriend already. Worse, she may say, she sees you as just a friend and she’d prefer you guys just stay friends.

But that’s not all. After that day, she goes cold, she no longer responds with the same enthusiasm as she did at the start, she starts giving you some wishy-washy reasons why she doesn’t return your calls and why she can’t spend time with you.
You become frustrated, asking yourself what exactly you did wrong. 

At this point, two things happen to a lot of guys who face this issue with the women they like and are interested in dating.

1. You may also become cold towards her. 

Then she sees you as a jealous jerk, someone who can’t take rejection and be mature about it. If you do this, you go further down the ladder of appropriate boyfriends, and she believes her decision was the right one.

Only one person loses out here. You.

2. You take it “as a man” and continue being friends with her. 

She is glad you didn’t end your relationship with her, but you still get put down the ladder of an appropriate boyfriend and because now you’re “just a friend”, she basically treats you as one of her fellow girls. 

She will date other boys but not you because women do not date their friends. She will bring her boyfriend problems to you to solve. And the truth is, you will hate every single minute of it but you can’t complain because hey, you’re just a friend.

You really do not want to be in any of the two scenarios above. What you want is for the woman you’re interested in to also be interested in you and see you as the sort of man they would be willing to date.

In this article, I’m going to tell you why women who were hot and aggressive at the beginning of a relationship go cold and eventually pull away. And how you can turn the tables around and get her to start chasing you again.

Science has proven it time and time again that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear, the moment a woman gets a clear hold of all that there is to you (becoming a plain book), you start losing your value in her eyes and her attraction for you starts going down. 

And when this starts happening you because you don’t understand how attraction works the first thing you think, you have to do is something to get her attraction back up. 

For many guys, what they do first is they start begging her to change her mind. And when she doesn’t they beg some more, and then some more, even asking her friends to plead on their behalf. The pressure becomes too much and she becomes afraid and unsure of how to respond.

Now here’s the thing, when you beg a woman to change her mind, you have psychologically given her power over you. You have put yourself below her, and as far as dating is concerned, that’s not a good thing. 

Here’s why.

Women prefer men who are in charge, not wimpy men who beg and plead with them. This only shows you don’t value yourself or know your worth. 

A woman wants a man she can be comfortable with, one who has control over his emotions, who is a challenge, a man who knows what he wants and goes for it. If a woman sees you as weak, and begging to her is a weak behaviour, she will never date a weak man. Period.

Another thing some guys do is, they try to do too much for the girl. This type of attitude is called “The illusion of action”.
You think you have to do something to get her to like you more and that the more you do, the more she will like you. That is bullshit! 

When a woman who was initially aggressive starts taking steps back, it shows you’re pursuing her too much, you’re forcing yourself on her and it’s choking her. You’re becoming too needy. She wants some air, so she tries to get some space. And the more you pursue her, thinking if you don’t, you’d lose her, she backs off making it more likely you might just eventually lose her.
You must understand that men and women respond to things differently and in the issues of love and relationships, women want you to take it slow but because men are visual, we want to get it all to a conclusion quickly. Hence, tend to come on too aggressive, asking for a relationship too soon.

Well, you see my friend, women are emotional beings and their actions are almost always different from what they say. That’s why a woman tells you when she breaks up with you or rejects your advances, “It’s not about you, it’s me” or “You’re not the problem but me”. 

A man hears these words and they sound gibberish to him. But that’s because you really do not understand how to deal with these situations when they happen to you.

What do you do to stay in control when you meet and like a woman and want to date her? What do you do to make sure you don’t enter the dreaded “friend zone” or if you’re already in it, to get out and turn things around? 

Don’t ask your female friends, they won’t tell you the truth because they don’t want to hurt your ego. Your guys can’t provide you good advice because they are also clueless (their relationships are shit). 

And if any of them are successful with women, they can’t tell you because honestly, they don’t know exactly what they are doing because they are just naturals (it’s inborn in them). 

But all hope is not lost. You can avoid getting sucked into the “friend zone”, and if you are in one, you can get out of it. You can become the man no woman can resist. How do I know this? 
Because, I was once like you, a wussy. Women used to walk all over me until I stripped myself of the “normal guy routine” and started using some ancient biological attraction triggers that have been used for more than 2,000 years since men used to live in caves and were gatherers. 

This is the same secret that the world’s famous lovers like Casanova, Mark Anthony, Elvis Presley, “Hugh Hefner (PlayBoy) Bill Clinton, etc used to get into the hearts and subsequently pants of the women they desired.

Since I learnt these ancient secrets my life has completely changed, 100 percent. I am now “The Man”. I am now the guy who women want to be with and STAY WITH. I am now the guy who has it all.

I am sure you want to have it all too, right? If you truly want to get the woman of your dreams to fall totally in love with you and keep her in love with you, then these ancient biological attraction triggers are what you should be using.

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Do I still have a chance with her?

If you truly want to be successful with women, you want to be able to differentiate women with a low level of interest from those with a high level of interest. In my book, I talked about the signs a woman gives when her level of interest is high. You want her interest level to be in the 5s/50s, to begin with.

denied by womanYou don’t want to waste your time and resources on a woman who at the end of the day doesn’t give a jack about you when there is a dozen of women who are waiting for you just to sweep them off their feet.

The following is an e-mail I got from a reader. He wants to know if he still has a chance with a girl who has told him, she is uninterested in him. He thinks his friend lied to him regards his relationship with the girl in question. My comments are (in bold brackets like this) in the body of his e-mail:

Before I go ahead, I want to share a quote with you

“You cannot force someone to comprehend a message that they are not ready to receive. Still, you must not underestimate the power of planting a seed.”


Hi Sir,
I commend u for the great advice in-depth coach. God bless you 

(Amen and this is my purpose, to help solve problems the best way I can and I love interacting and meeting women. When you understand women, meeting them becomes easy. A woman can instantly sense a confident male from afar and are easily drawn to him)

I have a problem which I trust u can help me out. There is this lady ve been trying to woo over a year now but to no avail.She is very close to a friend of mine. I told my friend I was interested in this lady and he encouraged me to go forward and try my luck with her.
I propose to her but she turned me down…she told me she had somebody in mind which I pushed her to tell me who this guy is. Unfortunately, it is my own friend who had lied to me. I realised he has not been truthful to me.
I use to call text n chat her a lot but have since stopped doing that tho am still interested in her.

(You don’t give up. Do you? What I see from your email though it isn’t as descriptive as it should is that; you have been treating this girl like a friend would instead of how a lover would. If you are interested in a woman romantically, you must treat her exactly how a lover would and not an errand boy or a female boyfriend. A woman will always respond to how you treat her

You need to understand that attraction is not a choice. We don’t get to choose who we get attracted to. The world and dating would have been so much easier. Don’t you think? When you understand the fundamentals which I teach, you will be able to know when a woman isn’t interested and when to move on
And saying your friend lied to you? about what? that the girl is interested in him? or am I missing something? It could be that your friend doesn’t even know she likes him.
You see, women are like cats who are sometimes drawn to the person who least cares about them. You need to learn the basics and that’s why you should get my book.)

Please, how do I go about it?
Thank You and stay blessed.

(What you should do right now is nothing and wait to hear from her. And go out there and find someone else (don’t get fixated on one woman who isn’t even attracted to you).

If she misses the times you spent with her, she would call you and when she does, ask her if she has changed her mind of you two becoming romantically involved. If she says no. Tell her you would like to hear from her only when she changes her mind (Don’t be rude while you say this). If she says yes, set a date and go have fun. If she says she doesn’t know, tell her to call you when she decides in a sweet and loving tone.
So, go out there. Someone is waiting for you to just come and sweep her off the ground.
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Jonathan Melody

Author, Graphic Artist, Peak Performance Coach, and Entrepreneur